

But in case you forgot the classics, maybe I need to jog your memory a little. There were so many good bangers from around this time that I can't even keep track of them all. However, what made the parties the most memorable was all the dancing. For me, prime #barmitzvahszn was around 2012-2013. Now let me tell you, the bar mitzvahs were the sh!t, and were always so much fun, especially when it was one of your friends or even your own. Parties typically consisted of a DJ party, speeches from family and friends, giveaways, a montage, and lots of mosh pits. Traditionally, there is a service where the young adult recites a portion from the Torah (the religious scripture) followed by a blowout at some sort of country club, bar, or various event venue. Growing up in an area with a predominantly Jewish community, many of my weekends in seventh grade were spent hopping from temple to temple and event venue to event venue to celebrate ~adulthood.~įor those of you who may not know, a Bar (men) or Bat (women) Mitzvah is a ceremony within the Jewish faith that celebrates the transition from a teenager to an emerging adult. However, my recollection is mostly dictated by memories of #barmitzvahszn. “Mitzvah” means one is responsible for performing the “mitzvot” or “commandments.” After your bar/bat mitzvah you will be seen as an adult, responsible for all of your actions.Seventh grade.a time for most people marked by puberty, insecurity and simple awkwardness. “Bar” means “male” and “bat” means “female”. Please share this with your bar/bat mitzvah child… This is a subject we hope the bar or bat mitzvah continues to actively explore for many years to come. It is important to remember that while the bar or bat mitzvah service and celebration can be very powerful - and fun - experiences, these events should be viewed as part of a process in which the young person and his/her family explores what it means to be a Jewish adult, and the opportunities and responsibilities that come with it. Offer a sermon or teaching connected to the parashah or haftarah readings and the experience of becoming a bar or bat mitzvah.įollowing the service, there is typically a festive meal and many families also host parties.Chant a selection from the weekly Torah portion ( parashah) and/or prophetic reading ( haftarah) and its accompanying blessings and,.

Recite the blessing before and after the reading of a section of the Torah (this honor is known as an aliyah).Be counted in the minyan (prayer quorum of 10 Jewish adults).This usually involves a communal prayer service (often, but not always, on Shabbat) at which the young person may do one or more of the following: The initiation ceremony is what is commonly referred to as the bar or bat mitzvah.

A Jewish boy becomes a bar mitzvah at age 13 and a girl at 12 years old-with or without a service or celebration (some girls do not have their celebrations until the age of 13). Technically speaking, however, to be a bar (male) or bat (female) mitzvah means one is responsible for the performance of the mitzvot, “commandments.” According to tradition, when children enter puberty they are held accountable for their actions. Like other religions and cultures throughout the world, Judaism has developed a variety of rituals to mark important life cycle moments. One of the most well-known of these rites is the bar or bat mitzvah. Caroline (Andy's daughter) at her Bat Mitzvah, May 9, 2009.
